Phone Sex
A Phone Sex Guide for the Best Phone Sex Ever
A phone sex guide? Why do you need a phone sex guide? Don’t you just get on the phone and talk dirty? Doesn’t it all kinda come naturally? Isn’t phone sex kinda cheesy like in the movies? No, not really. Great phone sex can be a lot of fun when you keep some basics in mind, do it with right person and ignore just about every portrayal of phone sex in the movies you’ve ever seen. Except maybe the scene in The Truth About Cats and Dogs. It also doesn’t come naturally for most people, but its a great way to keep a long distance relationship alive or explore a fantasy you’ve always thought about in a safe, non-judgemental environment.
I do know how to do great phone sex. I do it for a living and love it. I love roleplaying and indulging men’s fantasies on the phone. I like to think that I give intelligent phone sex. There’s a lot more conversation involved than just moaning and groaning on my end. Of course, I can do that too. But if you want really great, mind-blowing, fun, cum-back-for more erotic phone sex then you have to help. I may be a Goddess, but I can’t read minds over the phone!
Here are some of my tips for a great call.
Get Comfy. You’re going to be doing some body touching as well as talking so wear something with um “easy access”.
Privacy. Unless getting caught in the act is your thing, make sure you are not going to be disturbed. Lock the door, close the windows, indulge when your roommates are out of the house, etc.
Prior Planning. Yup, kinda breaks the spontaneity but if you’re calling a professional service, like me, make sure you have enough money in your account before you call. Its a real bummer when you are just about to explode in the orgasm of your life and the operator cuts in to tell you your time is up or you need to add more money.
Talk to Me. Tell me what you want. You don’t have to have the whole call scripted out in your mind, but give me an idea of what you’re looking for. I love to roleplay but I need to know who you want to play with! Give me an idea of what you’re looking for. Do you have a fantasy you’ve always wanted to play out? Are you looking for a hot and sweaty up-against-the wall quickie?
Make A Date. No matter if you’re planning an encounter with your long-distance lover or setting up a session with me you’ll have better luck in getting what you want by making a date. I take requests for dates all the time, it makes for a more relaxed time when I know who, when, what and where so I can really blow your mind!
I’m not going to tell you how to talk dirty as that varies from person to person. What turns me on, could turn you cold. This phone sex guide is more to give you some ideas on the practical side so we can have some great phone sex together.
How to Have Phone Sex
You can thrill your partner with dirty talk without even seeing him. It’s true! Those in long distance relationships are very familiar with the concept of phone sex to keep the tension high and the relationship healthy. If you take your time and get creative with your partner, phone sex can be so good, it almost feels like the real thing.
The best way on how to have phone sex is to never hold anything back. You’re not there with your partner, so you have to go the extra mile to make things even hotter. That might mean getting into kinkier fantasies than what you might every try in real life, and making sure that you describe everything in wild, vivid detail. Don’t be afraid to say things that are a little “out there” – your partner probably has a few naughty tales of his own to spin, and you want him to share just as openly as you do, right?
Start out with your simple fantasies, or dirty talk phrases that will get him going. Tell him what you’re wearing, and if you’re not wearing anything at all, make sure you tell him exactly what you’re doing as you are talking to him. Describe everything in detail. Wait for his cue before you use more graphic words. The rule of thumb here is that if he says it, you can say it, too.
Pay attention to your partner’s breathing as you talk to him. The more aroused he gets, the more strident his breath will be. Listen to where he is leading you with his encouraging words. If he wants more, he will lead you there!
Finally, don’t be afraid to enjoy yourself, too. The goal of phone sex is not necessarily to have an orgasm through all those dirty talk phrases – the goal is to stay close to your partner, even though you are separated by distance. If you can talk openly about your desires, staying close will be easy for you!
Beginner’s Guide to Phone Sex
Pssst…do you want to know a sexy little secret? Do you know that having a steaming sex life doesn’t have to involve acrobatic and /or complicated acts? By just being imaginative, a cell phone can also be a tool for awakening your carnal pleasures. Yes, great sex and multiple orgasms is just a phone call away.
Phone sex is not only good for long distance relationships; it can also do wonders if you want to improve your sex life. Doing these acts is an opportunity to let go of your sexual inhibitions. Mastering the art of the aural sex is just a matter of saying or hitting the right buttons.
To start with, let me ask with the question “How do you begin making the carnal call?” Read up lovers! As I give you the beginners guide to phone sex. Since this stimulates the carnal senses, you “NEED” to set up the mood. Dimming the lights and putting on sexy lingerie or wearing nothing at all are great ideas to start off with your lustful language.
If you are too tensed to begin the whole idea, try having some red wine to shake off the tension. Then make yourself comfortable and secure your privacy to avoid interruptions, this the most important thing that you should remember. It is also convenient if you have a hands-free phone where both your hands are free to grope.
This way this activity becomes more realistic. Now, moving on to the beginners guide in the context of”Horny Discussion”. Commencing the “talk” is the challenging part. You can begin with pleasantries like, asking him how his day went, and then break the ice by flirting. This is usually done by saying “I really miss you.” or “I wish you were here to keep me warm.” The best lines include “What are you wearing tonight?” and “Remember the last time we did it here?” These are the catalysts to a verbal sexual exchange.
Begin the spark of your erotic conversation by talking about the previous sizzling sack you had. Once your sexual juices begin to flow freely, it’s a sign that you are on your way to having a creative visualization of a stimulating pillow talk. If you are wearing something provocative describe it to your lover.
Then continue with the kinky talk by telling him in details how you’re slowly removing your clothes. Steam up the chat further by lucidly describing how and where you want to be touched. To further intensify the experience, masturbate! This way you really feel the electricity that flows through your body.
And lastly, if you are feeling horny and wet, then by all means, “Say it!” For men, if you are hot and hard tell her so. Try closing your eyes when having the conversation, to really feel the sensation. And the most important beginners guide that you should do when having a phone sex is to respond to any comments and suggestions or questions of your partner.
You should also engage in the exchange of titillating information to your partner. Encourage you partner to give you instructions on where and how you should touch yourself and ask him how he is exploring his body. Let yourself go. Be loud and drop that inhibition! Most of all, never stop unless both of you are able to reach orgasm.
After both of you have reached the climax, be sure to tell him how great it was as well as you can’t wait to do the actual thing. Phone sex is a fun and healthy experience for lovers. It opens the sexual communication and makes you comfortable with yourself sexually and sensually, which in turn makes your actual love-making experience an explosion.
You can thrill your partner with dirty talk without even seeing him. It’s true! Those in long distance relationships are very familiar with the concept of phone sex to keep the tension high and the relationship healthy. If you take your time and get creative with your partner, phone sex can be so good, it almost feels like the real thing.
The best way on how to have phone sex is to never hold anything back. You’re not there with your partner, so you have to go the extra mile to make things even hotter. That might mean getting into kinkier fantasies than what you might every try in real life, and making sure that you describe everything in wild, vivid detail. Don’t be afraid to say things that are a little “out there” – your partner probably has a few naughty tales of his own to spin, and you want him to share just as openly as you do, right?
Start out with your simple fantasies, or dirty talk phrases that will get him going. Tell him what you’re wearing, and if you’re not wearing anything at all, make sure you tell him exactly what you’re doing as you are talking to him. Describe everything in detail. Wait for his cue before you use more graphic words. The rule of thumb here is that if he says it, you can say it, too.
Pay attention to your partner’s breathing as you talk to him. The more aroused he gets, the more strident his breath will be. Listen to where he is leading you with his encouraging words. If he wants more, he will lead you there!
Finally, don’t be afraid to enjoy yourself, too. The goal of phone sex is not necessarily to have an orgasm through all those dirty talk phrases – the goal is to stay close to your partner, even though you are separated by distance. If you can talk openly about your desires, staying close will be easy for you!
Learning how to talk dirty on the telephone can be one of the hottest sexual encounters you will ever have. But how do you break the ice and let the person on the other end of the line know exactly what you want? You can tell them about your wildest fantasies once you know them a bit better, but what if you aren’t sure of them just yet? How do you find that fine line between kinky and tame?
Start out by reading your partner. Are they the shy type? Are they talking about everything but sex? If they are talking about sex, are they using gentle phrases, or are they going hardcore? The way they talk to you about sex from the start tells you how quickly they are willing to move. You can take your cues from their comments and move things along slowly if they are shy, but you can move much faster if they are talking to you like they’ve known you (and your sexual preferences!) for years.
If they invite you to tell them “anything,” take them at their word. They know they are getting into a phone sex conversation by that point, and they probably know that by inviting “anything,” they are also inviting something kinky. It probably isn’t the best idea to break out your wildest fantasies with someone you don’t know that well, but at least you know you can push the boundaries a little.
Pay attention! It’s easy to get lost in your own fantasies, especially when the orgasm is approaching. But pay attention to what your phone sex partner is saying – and pay careful attention to what they are NOT saying. Did you shock them into silence? Did you embarrass them? Are they encouraging you or are they backing away and trying to take the conversation in a different direction? They might not come right out and say what they are thinking, so pay attention to the cues they do give you.
Talk about it later. Unless you are having a one-night phone sex stand, you should have some time to talk to your phone sex partner when it’s all over. Ask them for their honest opinion on the fantasies you shared – did you tell them too little? Too much? Just right? Trust in their responses and go with them next time you have phone sex with that person.
If you want to hear more fantasies from them, say so! If their fantasies were a bit over-the-top for you but you’re open to hearing more, say that, too. As with anything else, open communication will improve the next time… and the next time… and eventually, your phone sex will be so hot, you will be sharing anything and everything.