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What causes a woman to dislike having sex and why she likes to keep it this way? Can a guy do anything to reverse this? Here are 5 ways to make sex fun for you and her.

Why Does A Woman Hate Having Sex

Before trying to overcome the barriers to a great sex life, it will be useful to understand what causes her to dislike having sex.

Even though most women are able to voice out their unhappiness, some choose to hide their feelings. If your woman behaves in this manner, both of your sex life can be seriously affected. Sexual intercourse will be like going through the motion because he is not emotionally and sexually connected to you. Worse still, she may withhold sex and use this as a bargaining chip.

A woman who feels been neglected by her partner or whose husband cheated on her can impede her desire to connect sexually. For her, there is a lot of wrong in the relationship and sex is no easy remedy. If the guy refuses to face up to this issue by seeking out ways to resolve the problem by open discussion or getting professional help, then chances are he will not find a willing, passionate sex partner.

Of course, there are some women who never, ever actually enjoy having sex. While some will try to work this out with their men in looking for ways to get the most out of their sexual relationship, others are resigned to the idea that sexual frustration is with them to stay. With expectations significantly lower, she will not be able to have orgasm.

How To Fix A Low-Sex Relationship

While there is no guarantee of a quick fix, the following ideas should at least start the ball rolling before the situation gets too serious to require the services of a counselor or therapist.

(1) Pay attention to her

It is every guy’s responsibility to become intimately well-informed with the woman he wants to have great sex with. You need to pay attention to her signals in daily life. You need to know what she likes and dislikes and to understand what makes your woman feel angry, hurt, insecure or loved.

(2) Avoid making her feel being treated as a sex object

While a man offers love to have sex, a woman needs to feel emotionally connected before she can get in the mood for making love. If you are only nice to her when you want to have sex with her, she will only feel that you are treating her as a sex object. A woman’s main sexual organ is her brain. If you do not work on her brain by making her feel loved and respected as your partner and wife, she is not going to get turned on by way any of your sexual techniques. Therefore treat her with kindness and consideration in and outside the bedroom.

(3) Assure her

When she is naked, assure her with appropriate comments and touching. Women who worry about the way they look down there are less likely to orgasm easily during sex. According to a study done by the Journal Of Sex Research, women who feel embarrassed or ashamed about their bodies have less sexual experience and are less sexually assertive.

(4) Strengthen emotional intimacy

This can be done by having real communication with each other regularly, which I mean both talking and listening attentively. If there are any disagreements, resolve them as soon as you can to guard against the storing up of anger and resentment. There is also a need to make an effort to spend time together. Couples who can relate well with one another and share activities together tend to be more active in sex.

(5) Enjoy the process and not to be concerned over the outcome

There is a need to recognize that sex is not always perfect. You have to learn to relax and surrender to the moment and simply enjoy the process. If the outcome is not what you expect, see this imperfection as an enriching experience and a chance for you to improve on it later.

Are you in need of good kissing tip for your first kiss?

When you get to the point in a relationship where you want a little bit more of intimacy, many couples will start with the first step, a kiss. A kiss with someone important will tell both of you a lot about your feelings.

It is crazy to think that such a tiny thing can explain so much to a person but, it can. A kiss can be shared with people who are young and anticipating their first kiss or between older adults that may have had a few beforehand. But, do not feel as if you have perfected it yet…

When you are focusing on the first kiss, think of what you should and should not do. I have a few good kissing tips for you.

* Overall it is a great idea to keep up with your dental hygiene. Brushing your teeth and using mouthwash is essential when providing a perfect kiss.
* No one wants to kiss someone who has bad breath and you are able to tell what they just ate. If you are unable to brush your teeth, chew a piece of gum. Make sure you spit it out before you kiss them though.
* Another good kissing tip is to focus your feelings on your partner: If they are pulling away a little do not insist on continuing the kiss. If they are into it then be into it also.
* If you are kissing a girl put your hands on her hips or back but not too low. It should not look like you where trying to put them on her buttocks where she might think you want more.
* If you are going to kiss a guy place your hands gently on his face or his neck.

Body language speaks loudly, especially when you are having an intimate moment with your partner. A kiss can also be opened mouth (French kissing) or it can be closed. Either way, make it a passionate experience with your partner.

Before it even happens be open and direct with them. Figure out exactly what they like and what they do not like. After all they need to enjoy the kiss just as much as you. If you are still confused about what to do or expect during a kiss there are multiple kissing stories online that you can read. They often include what they did wrong or what they did not do along with what they would do differently if they had the opportunity to do so.

Adam F. Bellman is a passionate fan of the game Truth or Dare. Many got their first kiss with this game of in a round of Spin the Bottle. You can find more about kissing there!

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Freud said it (more or less) and we have all suspected it at some time or the other – everything is finally about sex. Human beings are driven by hormones – in our relationships, at work, at play, it is hormones that give us our forward impetus. Ancient tantra acknowledges this fact and teaches us to harness our hormone-driven energies. However, tantra sex is just one aspect of this.

As every tantra teacher knows and teaches his students, tantra is the art of love. Sex is definitely an integral part of human love. Nevertheless, tantra is not the art of engaging in sex gymnastics but the art of giving and receiving love. What does love have to do with it? Everything. Love is also driven by hormones, or rather about the vitality that these hormones spawn. The natural need to procreate makes us yearn for closeness to and intimacy with another human being.

Tantra describes this vitality that is produced as prana, which is the essence of tantra energy. Under the guidance of a tantra master, tantra energy can be channelled by means of specific tantra techniques and tantra yoga practices. This prevents this energy from becoming diffused and wasted. It becomes a focused force which is dispensed in a worshipful manner in our relationships. The yearning for intimacy then becomes something divine.

As the tantra teacher initiates his students into the deeper teachings of this ancient science, their capacity to love and be loved increased exponentially. They are no longer tossed and tugged this way and that by a base flow of hormones. No longer is the loved partner objectified as a sexual receptacle or dispenser. Rather, the true meaning of loving with devotion and genuine affection becomes manifest.

Without such a channel, human love is no more than proof of what Freud implied in his works. In other words, it remains the pursuit of sex for its own sake. The gift of intelligence allows us to cloak this pursuit in more flattering colours, but this is finally what it boils down to. Under the guidance of an accomplished tantra master, love begins to attain its rightfully divine status. It becomes an act of devotion.

This is why tantra sex is nothing less than worship. Love becomes divine – and unlike normal love, divine love never fades away. A person who practices tantra love is not a slave to his or her hormones. Rather, these hormones are transformed. They are no longer sources of a blind, uncomprehending quest for sexual gratification. They become a source of divine passion – a passion that turns earthly love into something celestial.

Finding a girl’s g spot is all about angles! The angles required to reach and locate it in the first place, and then the angles required to stimulate it.

If you consider every sex toy specifically made for locating a girls g spot, you can see the unusual, and somewhat unnerving angels they are designed specifically to create. And that can only make you wonder how in the world can a regular penis possibly match or recreate the unusual angles that g spot sex toys are intended to do.

The reason why so many people have trouble finding the g spot, is simply because when prodding for it, their fingers can actually go past it and miss it all together. Technically speaking, a girls g spot is located one to three inches up the from the vagina wall and much of the advice on locating it is to insert a finger in to the vagina up to the base of the knuckle, then hooking the finger back in a ‘come hither’ motion. This is good advice, however it can all depend on the size of the finger as well as each woman’s individual body to be able to successfully find it.

The best advice on finding the g spot is for each woman to take matters in to her own hands, and that’s by using a sex toy. And although using this method cannot allow you to feel with your finger for the ribbed bumpy area that is known to be the g spot, with the right stimulation your body will definitely let your know when you’ve found it.

With this in mind choose a g spot sex toy that appeals to you. Usually a good choice is one that has a clitoral vibrator because you will definitely need that to fully arouse you and get you in the mood.

Sex toys are wonderful for all different types of stimulation but when specifically using one for g spot stimulation you need to take particular care. You must be fully aroused before applying any sort of pressure to the g spot area, because if you are not properly stimulated, it’s unlikely to have any sensation at all and rubbing against it can actually feel quite painful.

When locating it, practice running it up and down your vaginal wall, hook it in to towards you, or even try pushing it out. Try using it in the area where you think your g spot may be, but if you don’t have any luck, concentrate on running it along or moving it in and out specifically on the areas that feel good.

Try not to get too carried away with it all to the point where you end up having a clitoral orgasm. Instead concentrate on drawing your pleasure out. There should be no time frame when you are trying to find your g spot and try to always aim your sex toy away from your clitoris and focus it instead on your internal pleasure.

Overall, just like when you’re trying for any orgasm remember that it’s definitely not a race. If you focus too much on trying to have a g spot orgasm, you will likely get too stressed and frustrated trying to make it happen. Instead focus on enjoying stimulating this area and experimenting with what you like and what you don’t. It may take a long time, or it may happen quite quickly for you. Just remember to enjoy your sexuality and concentrate on letting the sexual energy in your body flow and with any luck that sexual energy will peak right at your g spot.

If you are looking for more satisfying sex with a partner, a good place to start is actually be developing your very own female self pleasure techniques. Because often it’s the women who know how to turn themselves on, which have the most fulfilling sex with a partner.

There are various self pleasure techniques you can use, and over time you will find the ones that work the best for you, but these self pleasure tips are a good place to start you on your way to a better sex life.

SELF PLEASURE TIPS

Female self arousal generally starts in your mind. So well before you begin, start to think about what you’re going to do, and start to look forward to it. Even if you are not at the point of bringing yourself to orgasm yet, you should be thinking about the quiet, relaxing ‘me’ time you’re about to have.

With this in mind ensure that when you are ready to begin, that you are not distracted by anything. Ringing phones, a noisy TV, or screaming kids are not likely going to help you clear your mind and focus on your pleasure.

Read and erotic book or if you’re in to it, watch some female friendly porn or view erotic images. Anything to help you to escape in to a world of wonderful of fantasy and female self pleasuring

The book or the images should have your mind relaying sexy messages to the lower half of your body. When this happens begin to touch your breasts softly, making slow circular motions. Once of the best self pleasure techniques is to think about the character in the book or on screen touch you. When you’re ready, move your hands between your legs.

Continue with circular patterns around your labia and begin to massage your clitoral hood. You may already have your own masturbation method but ensure you take your time here and focus on being in the moment. Remember that it’s not a race and there should be no time frame.

At this point you may want to use some lubricant to assist with a smooth fluent hand movement. It’s also a good idea to use lube if you like to insert your finger and as you build intensity with your hand.

Try to go with what feels good and if necessary change your rhythm and alternate your hand between your clitoris, vagina opening and the perennial sponge.

If you feel you are stuck in a certain position, then a good self pleasure tip is to try changing your positioning to simulate sex with a partner. And if touching your clitoris directly is too sensitive try lying face down or straddle your pillow to create cowgirl position. With enough movement

Another hot self pleasure technique is to prop your body up on one arm as you work your lady spot with the other. Take pleasure in the site of your naked body and as the intensity builds and builds keep breathing and a steady hand as your ride the wave to euphoria.